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The first sentence uses visual words, the second auditory, the third kinesthetic and the fourth uses words that are not sensory based (auditory digital), yet all four sentences convey the same general meaning.

You use words to describe your thoughts. If your thoughts (internal representations) are mainly pictures, then you will tend to use more visual words when describing your thoughts. If your thoughts are based on logic or making sense of something, you may tend to use words that reflect the logic of your thinking. Likewise, for auditory and kinesthetic. The words you use reflect your internal thought processes. This is a very important point as you are revealing your internal thoughts and thought structures to others through the words you choose to use or not use - more about this in later articles.

In NLP terms, visual, auditory, kinesthetic and auditory digital words are called predicates. The predicates that a person uses will provide you with an indication of the person's preferred representational system.

The following table gives you an idea of some of the different predicates. This is not a complete list. Can you think of other words or phrases that can be added? Notice that some words like fuzzy could appear in more than one column.

Visual

Auditory

Kinesthetic

Auditory Digital

see

look

bright

clear

picture

foggy

view

clear

focused

dawn

reveal

illuminate

imagine

hazy

an eyeful

short sighted

sight for sore eyes

take a peek

tunnel vision

bird's eye view

naked eye

paint a picture

hear

tell

sound

resonate

listen

silence

deaf

squeak

hush

roar

melody

make music

harmonize

tune in/out

rings a bell

quiet as a mouse

voiced an opinion

clear as a bell

give me your ear

loud and clear

purrs like a kitten

on another note

grasp

feel

hard

unfeeling

concrete

scrape

solid

touch

get hold of

catch on

tap into

heated argument

pull some strings

sharp as a tack

smooth operator

make contact

throw out

firm foundation

get a handle on

get in touch with

hand in hand

hang in there

sense

experience

understand

change

perceive

question

insensitive

distinct

conceive

know

think

learn

process

decide

motivate

consider

describe in detail

figure it out

make sense of

pay attention to

word for word

without a doubt


You use visual, auditory, kinesthetic and auditory digital predicates all of the time. Some contexts imply the use of one type of predicate, for example if I asked you to describe a picture on your television, you would most likely use visual predicates. And if there is a choice, you will tend to use the predicates from your preferred representational system.

Sometimes We Don't Speak the Same Language.

Have you ever had the occasion to explain something to someone and they said 'I don't see what you are saying' or 'I can't picture this.' What's going on here? One possibility is that they are highly visual and you have been using words other than visual and hence they are having difficulty forming a picture of your explanation in their mind. And how do we usually handle this situation? We repeat the same words over again, only this time LOUDER, as obviously they did not hear us!

How can you approach this differently so the person can see what you are saying? One possibility is to use visual words to help them make a picture in their mind or you may wish to draw them a diagram or picture.

And of course, it is not just visual people who may have difficulty with your explanation, an auditory person may say 'I can't hear what you are saying' or 'This doesn't sound right.' A kinesthetic person: 'I can't grasp what you are saying' or 'I don't have a feeling for this.' An auditory digital person: 'There is no logic in what you are saying' or 'This does not make sense'.

Pay attention to the words people are using, they are revealing to you how they see, hear, get in touch with or make sense of the world around them.

And finally... I know that you are the type of person who wants to become more successful. I also know that these hypnotic language patterns will cause the dramatic developments you want to make in your presentation and sales negotiations. Looking back having mastered the following techniques you will be in the VIP Circle of Language Magicians.

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