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Leveraging agreement
The first sentence uses visual words, the second auditory, the third kinesthetic and the fourth uses words that are not sensory based (auditory digital), yet all four sentences convey the same general meaning.
You use words to describe your thoughts. If your thoughts (internal representations) are mainly pictures, then you will tend to use more visual words when describing your thoughts. If your thoughts are based on logic or making sense of something, you may tend to use words that reflect the logic of your thinking. Likewise, for auditory and kinesthetic. The words you use reflect your internal thought processes. This is a very important point as you are revealing your internal thoughts and thought structures to others through the words you choose to use or not use - more about this in later articles.
In NLP terms, visual, auditory, kinesthetic and auditory digital words are called predicates. The predicates that a person uses will provide you with an indication of the person's preferred representational system.
The following table gives you an idea of some of the different predicates. This is not a complete list. Can you think of other words or phrases that can be added? Notice that some words like fuzzy could appear in more than one column.
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Visual |
Auditory |
Kinesthetic |
Auditory Digital |
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see
look
bright
clear
picture
foggy
view
clear
focused
dawn
reveal
illuminate
imagine
hazy
an eyeful
short sighted
sight for sore eyes
take a peek
tunnel vision
bird's eye view
naked eye
paint a picture |
hear
tell
sound
resonate
listen
silence
deaf
squeak
hush
roar
melody
make music
harmonize
tune in/out
rings a bell
quiet as a mouse
voiced an opinion
clear as a bell
give me your ear
loud and clear
purrs like a kitten
on another note |
grasp
feel
hard
unfeeling
concrete
scrape
solid
touch
get hold of
catch on
tap into
heated argument
pull some strings
sharp as a tack
smooth operator
make contact
throw out
firm foundation
get a handle on
get in touch with
hand in hand
hang in there |
sense
experience
understand
change
perceive
question
insensitive
distinct
conceive
know
think
learn
process
decide
motivate
consider
describe in detail
figure it out
make sense of
pay attention to
word for word
without a doubt |
You use visual, auditory, kinesthetic and auditory digital predicates all of the time. Some contexts imply the use of one type of predicate, for example if I asked you to describe a picture on your television, you would most likely use visual predicates. And if there is a choice, you will tend to use the predicates from your preferred representational system.
Sometimes We Don't Speak the Same Language.
Have you ever had the occasion to explain something to someone and they said 'I don't see what you are saying' or 'I can't picture this.' What's going on here? One possibility is that they are highly visual and you have been using words other than visual and hence they are having difficulty forming a picture of your explanation in their mind. And how do we usually handle this situation? We repeat the same words over again, only this time LOUDER, as obviously they did not hear us!
How can you approach this differently so the person can see what you are saying? One possibility is to use visual words to help them make a picture in their mind or you may wish to draw them a diagram or picture.
And of course, it is not just visual people who may have difficulty with your explanation, an auditory person may say 'I can't hear what you are saying' or 'This doesn't sound right.' A kinesthetic person: 'I can't grasp what you are saying' or 'I don't have a feeling for this.' An auditory digital person: 'There is no logic in what you are saying' or 'This does not make sense'.
Pay attention to the words people are using, they are revealing to you how they see, hear, get in touch with or make sense of the world around them.
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